Reflection on John 16:12-15

 

John 16:12-15

Jesus’ ongoing presence with the disciples will be made known through the coming Spirit who will guide them and communicate to them Jesus’ will and glory.

[Jesus said,] ¹² “I still have many things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. ¹³ When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own but will speak whatever he hears, and he will declare to you the things that are to come. ¹⁴ He will glorify me because he will take what is mine and declare it to you. ¹⁵ All that the Father has is mine. For this reason I said that he will take what is mine and declare it to you.”

Reflection

(This reflection, from Pastor Jira's archives, was written by Pastor Jira and preached while he was on vacation, thus the use of the third person.)

Truth.  “What is truth?”  That is the famous cynical question from Pontius Pilate just after Jesus indicates that everyone on the side of truth listens to him.  Truth.

The idea of “the truth” has fascinated Pastor Jira for much of his life.  What is truth?

His first serious venture into the question of truth fell upon him when in fifth grade and playing in the woods.  Most of his time in the woods was spent playing war with his brothers. But, in between the battles, he would find a nice log and just sit and enjoy the beauty of nature around him.  And, while sitting, breathing in the smells of the wind and feeling the breeze on his face, he noticed a remarkable truth: squirrels talk!  Well, not exactly talk, he had not stumbled into a live action Disney cartoon, but he saw that squirrels actually communicate. 

He watched the squirrels as they hid their treasured acorns away in the trees.  Right after doing so, the furry creatures would make a very distinct chirp while facing fiercely out into the world…as fierce as a squirrel can be anyway.  He soon realized that the sound the squirrels made was the same each time they hid an acorn.  And, he could also hear a reply in the distance each time.  The squirrels were talking!

Though Pastor Jira usually does not go around telling people that squirrels started him on a path of philosophical inquiry…they actually did!  There was this truth…this whole world that was going on out there that he did not understand or know.  He yearned to learn more.  He yearned to learn the truth.

That sent him on a path to learn a lot about nature.  But, even after studying that, he did not feel like he yet had “the truth.” 

The lure of “the truth” sparked once again the day he realized that paintings are more than an extremely time consuming and expensive ways to do a photograph.  He learned that there was deep meaning in pieces of art.  There is meaning in the way the people face each other.  There is meaning in the colors chosen and the shapes taken.  There is meaning in the emotion that is evoked through the colors.  Yes, because of that, there is meaning even in the splattered and smeared colors of modern art that lead those without an artistic eye simply to say, “My granddaughter can do better than that.” 

But, as deeply moved as he was with art, it still did not given him the answers to “the truth.”  Rather, it only did what all good art does; pointed beyond itself to a higher truth and created a yearning to reach for more. 

He still yearned to know the truth.

Some of that art pointed him to the world religions.  He was fascinated by humanity’s attempts to understand and commune with truths that were higher than we could possibly imagine.  Buddhism especially struck a chord the Lutheran boy’s heart.  The very idea of quieting the mind in order to become one with reality; one with God; one with the source of all compassion; was very appealing to the youthful Pastor Jira.  The truth seemed so close to his grasp that he could virtually taste it.

There is a reason for all of this story-telling of Pastor Jira’s life, of course.  It is about the truth, and where that search led him.  It is also about where your search leads you. 

There were other forays into truth of course, which included learning a deep respect for science and understanding the depths of human psychology.  Needless to say, though Pastor Jira is happy that he wandered through all of these truths in life, he never found “the truth.”  At least, not until he discovered what was in plain sight his entire Christian life. 

He had never seen “the truth” that was right in front of him, because he had never truly understood that “the truth” is not about a philosophy or a feeling or a law of nature or law of the universe that can be grasped, held, and fully understood.  The truth is a relationship.  You will understand what Pastor Jira means in just one moment. 

His epiphany concerning “the truth” actually came during a boring church service.  There was nothing great about this service.  The notes of the hymns were too high.  The pastor’s monotone voice was as fascinating as watching dust on a shelf.  Despite droning tone of the preacher, Pastor Jira still heard these few words that changed his world right there in the pew.  “I am the way, and the truth, and the life” (John 14:6).

His mind was simply blown away.  For all of these years he had searched for the truth as if it were something that he could grasp and understand and hold.  But, he realized in that moment that the truth is not something, it is someone.

Jesus is the truth.  If you want to understand God...if you want to understand the heart of all eternity, you need look no further than Jesus. 

We always joke in Sunday School that the correct answer is always Jesus, but Pastor Jira had not fully realized before that the answer actually is Jesus.  You want to know about the truth, look at Jesus!

Pastor Jira’s yearning to know the truth, naturally, turned into wanting to know everything he could about Jesus.  And this is where the scripture reading for today comes in.  Obviously, we cannot see Jesus today.  He is not physically present.  He has ascended to God the Father.  And, that would seem to be a problem.  Just imagine that you find out that the truth used to be right here on the first floor, but the elevator man tells you, “Just before you got here he ascended up to the 118th floor.  Oh, and the elevator is broken.” 

Jesus used to walk and talk with us.  “The truth” used to live right with us.

But, all is not lost.  The “Spirit of truth,” or another way to say it, the “Spirit of Jesus” has been left with us as a gift. 

Jesus promises, “When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own but will speak whatever he hears, and he will declare to you the things that are to come. He will glorify me because he will take what is mine and declare it to you” (John 16:13-14).

The Spirit is here.  The Spirit will lead us and guide us just as Jesus would have led us.  “He will guide you into all the truth” (John 16:13).  The Spirit will love us just as Jesus would has loved us.  The Spirit will do this, because the Spirit is one with Jesus.  The Spirit is Jesus’ own Spirit.

The Spirit will create a yearning in us to search the scriptures, especially the stories of Jesus.  And when we do that, we will see who The Truth truly cares about. 

The Spirit will open our closed eyes to our neighbors. 

The Spirit will fill us with a forgiving love that is almost impossible to grasp. 

The Spirit is here.  Jesus is here.  God the Father is here.  The truth is here, now, among us, speaking to us through the scriptures and through love.

“All that the Father has is mine. For this reason I said that he will take what is mine and declare it to you” (John 16:15).

Now, Pastor Jira admits that he does not have a complete grasp of “The Truth.”  He does not understand Jesus fully, just like he does not understand his wife fully.  He probably never will.  He thinks that is OK, because he understands that the truth has a firm grasp on him. Jesus has a firm grasp on him and us.  And that firm grasp makes us yearn to know the truth more and more.  May the Spirit fill you with that yearning, so that we can learn together what it is to follow Jesus who is “the truth.”  Listening to the Spirit and following “the truth” together is the way Jesus wants it.

Reflection on Acts 2:1-21

 

Acts 2:1-21

¹When the day of Pentecost had come, [the apostles] were all together in one place. ²And suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. ³Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of them. ⁴All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability.

  ⁵Now there were devout Jews from every nation under heaven living in Jerusalem. ⁶And at this sound the crowd gathered and was bewildered, because each one heard them speaking in the native language of each. ⁷Amazed and astonished, they asked, “Are not all these who are speaking Galileans? ⁸And how is it that we hear, each of us, in our own native language? ⁹Parthians, Medes, Elamites, and residents of Mesopotamia, Judea and Cappadocia, Pontus and Asia, ¹⁰Phrygia and Pamphylia, Egypt and the parts of Libya belonging to Cyrene, and visitors from Rome, both Jews and proselytes, ¹¹Cretans and Arabs—in our own languages we hear them speaking about God’s deeds of power.” ¹²All were amazed and perplexed, saying to one another, “What does this mean?” ¹³But others sneered and said, “They are filled with new wine.”
  ¹⁴But Peter, standing with the eleven, raised his voice and addressed them, “Men of Judea and all who live in Jerusalem, let this be known to you, and listen to what I say. ¹⁵Indeed, these are not drunk, as you suppose, for it is only nine o’clock in the morning. ¹⁶No, this is what was spoken through the prophet Joel:
 ¹⁷‘In the last days it will be, God declares,
 that I will pour out my Spirit upon all flesh,
  and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy,
 and your young men shall see visions,
  and your old men shall dream dreams.
 ¹⁸Even upon my slaves, both men and women,
  in those days I will pour out my Spirit;
   and they shall prophesy.
 ¹⁹And I will show portents in the heaven above
  and signs on the earth below,
   blood, and fire, and smoky mist.
 ²⁰The sun shall be turned to darkness
  and the moon to blood,
   before the coming of the Lord’s great and glorious day.
 ²¹Then everyone who calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.’ ”

Reflection on Acts 2:1-21

(This reflection, from Pastor Jira's archives, was written by Pastor Jira, but preached on his behalf while on vacation.  Thus, the use of the third person.)

One of Pastor Jira’s theology professors had just landed in Mumbai, India and was exiting the airport when he was confronted by a little boy holding out his hand.  This is typical in India.  Poorer families will send out their children to beg in tourist areas around the city in the same way that Pastor Jira and my brothers were sent out by his parents to mow people’s yards during the summer.  It keeps kids out of trouble and to brings in a little money for the family. 

Assuming the professor was American, which he was, the little boy asked for some money in perfect American English.  Trying to get past the annoying kid and onto his waiting bus, the theology professor answered back in perfect German, “I don’t speak English.” 

Amazingly, the kid replied, “That’s OK, I can speak German too,” with a perfect German accent.  The kid got the money.

That kid’s linguistic abilities reminds me of the gifts the Holy Spirit brought on the day of Pentecost.  People from at least 15 nations had gathered in Jerusalem for the harvest festival of Pentecost, bringing gifts of the first fruits of their labor to sacrifice to God at the temple.  Little did they know that God had a gift waiting for them.

The Bible tells us, “Suddenly from heaven there came a sound like the rush of a violent wind, and it filled the entire house where they were sitting. Divided tongues, as of fire, appeared among them, and a tongue rested on each of [the apostles]” (Acts 2:2-3).

The sudden appearance of flaming tongues appearing all around was not God’s amazing surprise to the people though.  The gift from God that amazed the people did not have to do with what they saw; rather, it had to do with what they heard.

The Bible continues, “All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other languages, as the Spirit gave them ability” (Acts 2:4).

Just as that little beggar boy could talk to the seminary professor in multiple languages; those standing in the crowd were “amazed and astonished” to hear these native Jews with the flaming tongues speaking, not in Hebrew, but in the native languages of their own countries.  The crowds asked, “Are not all these who are speaking Galileans? And how is it that we hear, each of us, in our own native language?” (Acts 2:7-8).

The visitors were in a foreign country to celebrate, but it was as if they were at home.  And, as anyone who has traveled to a foreign nation and tried to urgently ask for the directions to the bathroom can tell you, there is nothing better than to have someone who can speak your own language!

This made Pastor Jira remember a foreign exchange student that he became friends with in High School.  She was from Colombia.  Today, she is a highly paid official at the World Bank, negotiating loans between nations for the building up of global economies.  This girl was no idiot.  But while in school, she was sort of treated like one. 

Though she was a genius, she could not convey it in a way that the students could understand.  Her English was not yet perfected while in High School and her limited English vocabulary hid her intelligence.  But, her face lit up with a huge smile when the Spanish teacher sought her out and struck up a conversation.  Having someone who can speak your language can be life changing.

There are two flourishing and growing churches right here in Pennsylvania that specifically minister to the drug and alcohol recovery communities.  In these recovery churches, people who have struggled to find new life beyond the drugs and alcohol have found the new life that Jesus Christ can create which forgives the sin of their addiction and builds a new future from the broken pieces of their lives. 

As you already know, there is a huge need throughout our entire nation to have people who can speak the language of recovery and new life after substance abuse.  But, not just any church, nor any person, would be able to take on such a ministry.  Only those who know the language of addiction, only those who have been through the struggle, through the single steps forward and the multiple steps back, only those who have finally been brought by Jesus to the other side of the addiction are able to speak to people in ways that give new life from God.  

Like the apostle who had been given the gift of the language spoken by the Medes, for the Medes, or the apostle who was given the language spoken by the Mesopotamians, for the Mesopotamians during Pentecost, the Holy Spirit still gifts particular people of faith with the language of addiction and recovery.  Having this gift of language from the Holy Spirit transforms a recovery minister’s embarrassing past of addiction into their greatest gift for the kingdom of God.  The same thing is true for you as well.

Maybe you do not speak the language of addiction, but I assure you that you too have been given the gift of a language from the Holy Spirit.  You too are a gift to someone waiting for the healing and wholeness that comes through knowing Jesus Christ.

Pastor Jira knows of someone who had been trained as a theatrical actor who then went to seminary in order to learn more about God.  And, after her pastoral training, she went back to the world of acting and took a job managing props at a movie studio. 

Why did someone from the theatre world take the time and spend the money to go to seminary, just to return to the world of acting?  Because, the language used in the world of acting is the language gifted to her by the Holy Spirit .  She understands the terminology.  She knows which direction you would need to step if asked to go “up stage left.” 

But, beyond terminology, she understands the unique culture and language of those in the creative, performing arts.  Where many look at those in the acting world and only see weird people with weird ways, she sees people who God created and who God yearns to redeem.  The Spirit has chosen and equipped her to be a gift to those people.  She proclaims to those people in the dark corners of the sound stage as they try to clear their minds and enter into the minds of their characters.  She can speak, in a very particular way, the good news of the grace of Jesus Christ to these very peculiar people.  They are her people, after-all.

And, just to be clear, you do not have to be seminary trained to do this stuff.  The important part of the story is not the seminary training, but rather the gift of a particular language that the Holy Spirit provides. 

Perhaps, you have been given the gift of knowing an actual second language such as Spanish and can connect in the name of Christ with Haitian or Guatemalan family who has been granted protection in our country. Someone who actually knows Spanish could be a gift from God, walking alongside them and sharing Christ’s love with them!

Perhaps, your language is quilting and you can share the good news of Christ Jesus through the block patterns that you put together.  “Block patterns,” that is the extent of Pastor Jira’s knowledge about the quilting world, so barring a flaming tongue of the quilting language falling from the sky, he will not be the choice to deliver the good news in that world.  But, you may be!

Maybe your language is dairy farming; or auto mechanics; or hunting, or motorcycle culture; or pop music enthusiast; or old guys talking at the diner for breakfast.  Pastor Jira does not speak any of those languages!  He certainly does not speak the language of old ladies at the hair solon, but you might!  And, if you have been given the gift of that language by the Holy Spirit, then you are sent from our church as a gift to those people. 

You are the one who knows the language you have been gifted.  You are the one who can speak of God’s grace, and God’s love for the sinner, and God’s care for the world to those particular people.  You are the one who has been given as a gift of the Holy Spirit to those people. 

Notice, that in the Pentecost story, it is not the divided tongues of fire that are the gift of the Holy Spirit, but rather the apostles themselves (who have been given those tongues and languages) who are the gift to the people at the Pentecost festival.  God provides those followers of Jesus as a gift to those at the festival, that they may understand and hear the good news of Jesus Christ.

You too are a gift to someone who needs to hear about the grace of God.  You too are a gift to someone who needs their life to become new.  You too are a gift from Jesus to someone else who needs salvation.  You too are a gift who knows how to share the language of God in a meaningful way.

Reflection on John 17:20-26

 

John 17:20-26

Jesus prays that the life of his followers will be characterized by an intimate unity of identity with God. To be so identified with God means also to share in God’s mission: to proclaim the word that will bring others into this same unity.

[Jesus prayed:] 20 “I ask not only on behalf of these but also on behalf of those who believe in me through their word, 21 that they may all be one. As you, Father, are in me and I am in you, may they also be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 The glory (divine image) that you have given me I have given them, so that they may be one, as we are one, 23 I in them and you in me, that they may become completely one, so that the world may know that you have sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me. 24 Father, I desire that those also, whom you have given me, may be with me where I am, to see my glory (divine image), which you have given me because you loved me before the foundation of the world.

25 “Righteous Father, the world does not know you, but I know you, and these know that you have sent me. 26 I made your name known to them, and I will make it known, so that the love with which you have loved me may be in them and I in them.”

 

Reflection

For those of you who remember Marian Feathers, she loved recalling the day one of her children was acting up in church.  She quietly ordered them to settle down, but the child refused to listen to her.  This got her husband Bill mad, so he quickly put the child on his shoulder to haul him out of the church.  Just as they were headed out the door the child looked out at the congregation and pleaded, “Pray for me!  Pray for me!”

It is good to be prayed for.  And in our gospel reading for today, Jesus is praying for us.

And, before I go any further, I just want to stop right there and sit with that for a second.  I just want that reality to sink in for a moment.  Jesus Christ, our king.  Jesus Christ, the Son of God the Father.  Jesus Christ, the word made flesh, through whom all was created.  That important and busy divine Son of God took a moment of his precious time in order to pray for you.  He prayed for you.  If you do not believe me, look.  It is there in the scriptures.

While Jesus is praying to God the Father, he mentions how he is asking things, not only for the benefit of his disciples who are standing right there, but he is also praying and asking things “on behalf of those who believe in me through [the disciple’s] word” (John17:20).  And, I do not know if you have ever considered this possibility, but it struck me the other day that Jesus is praying for us.  He is praying for you.  Because the disciples told generation after generation the story of the good news of Jesus Christ, and you trust that good news, because of that, Jesus is praying for you

Way back in 33AD, Jesus stopped and took the time to pray for you.  “That can’t be true.”  Of course, it is true.  Who else could he have been talking about?  At that time, he had not yet died on the cross.  The disciples, for whom he was also praying, had not yet begun their own ministry.  So, when he mentioned, “those who believe through [the disciples’] word,” he was talking about believers in the future (John 17:20).  Jesus had you in mind.  Jesus prays for you.  And, that is powerful stuff.

A few years ago, I was talking with a young man who had gotten into quite a bit of trouble with the law.  He was on probation and was working in the stock room of a local store.  I saw him through the door while I was shopping and I asked how he was doing.  We talked for a bit about his struggles with the law and his addictions, we also talked about video games, but he said one thing that day that still sticks with me.

He said, “For a long time I just didn’t really care about myself.  I didn’t care if I hurt myself.  I didn’t care if I hurt my parents.  I didn’t care if I ever got caught.  But, I care now.  I am trying hard now because a couple months ago I overheard my grandma, just down the hall, talking in her bedroom.” 

He was living with his grandma as a stipulation of his probation. 

“She was talking, but we were the only two in the house.  So, I put my ear to her door to see if there was anything wrong, if there was an intruder or something.  I realized that she was fine.  She was praying.  Only, I heard my name.  She was praying for me.  She was praying that I would be given a life that was good and worth something. 

I didn’t know anyone cared enough about me to even think of me, let alone pray for me.  But, my grandma did.  I decided right there that if she cared about me, maybe I should start caring about me.  And, I also decided that maybe I should try praying.”

It is good to be prayed for.  And in our gospel reading for today, Jesus is praying for us. 

So, what is it that Jesus wants so badly for us that he takes the time to stop and lift us up to God the Father?  Well, it says it right in the Bible.  Jesus prays: “As you, Father, are in me and I am in you, may they also be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me” (John 17:21).

“May they also be in us” (John 17:21).

Just like the young man’s grandma prayed that her grandchild would return to a life of goodness and a worthwhile purpose, Jesus is praying that we might return and be with him and God the Father.  But, Jesus does not just want us back with him, he also wants us to have a purpose; “that the world may believe” that Jesus was sent by God the Father for the world as well (John 17:21).  Jesus wants more than anything for us to be one.

I want that too.  I am not even going to talk about the divisions within our nation and politics.  We do not have to look that far to desire unity.  Within my own extended family there are siblings who used to love each other who are bitterly divided.  Within my own extended family there are children who will not talk to parents, and there is a cousin who lives nearby another cousin who is struggling, but they refuse to help out.  This is all because something from the past has divided them, and none of them appears to ready to love like Jesus loved, or forgive like Jesus forgave.  You have the same thing in your families, I know.

And, all my family went to Sunday school.  All of mine learned “Jesus love me.”  All of them learned the words, “love your enemy, and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).  They know John 13:34, even if they cannot tell you the verse and number.  They know that they have been commanded to “Love one another.  As I have loved you…”  They all know. 

But, they are like the little boy who was overheard praying: “Lord, if you can’t make me a better boy, don’t worry about it.  I’m having a real good time just the way I am.”

It is a joke, but it is so true.  There is something that we gain when we remain separated.  That is why we do it.  There is something that we think will fulfill our souls by remaining in a state of division.  Good fences make for good neighbors, we are told.  That is what the world teaches anyway.  The world tells us that being separated is important; that walls are a good idea.  But, Jesus takes time out of his busy day and stops his journey to the cross for a moment in order to pray that we might all be one.

Listen to Jesus’ prayer: “The glory (or divine image) that you have given me I have given them, so that they may be one, as we are one” (John 17:22). 

People out in the world tend to think that Christians come to church and put on a false disguise of love and goodness.  And, they think that because they have seen people who call themselves Christians out in the world and have seen what these people really do.  They have seen the truth.  All of the love and goodness at church seems to be put on for show.  They say that it is all a costume, but they have seen the truth.

My Sunday school teacher in High School, a man who was devoted to us teens and asked about our lives and our weekly struggles every Sunday morning, once talked about a guy who stopped by his little repair shop and accused him of that very thing. 

“I saw you for years at the bar.  I heard you talk.  I know who you left with at night, even though you were a married man.  What a fraud you have become, starting to go to church.  And, I heard you are teaching kids!  How can you do that?” the man accused.  Do you want to hear my Sunday school teacher’s response?

“You are right.  I was all of those things.  I still am some of them.  But, I don’t go to church to pretending to be someone I’m not.  I do not and put on a costume.  I go to church so that Jesus can wash off all of that grime, to have the costume that you saw stripped away, so that I can finally be who he made me to be.  And, you can be that too.”

The sin is the costume.  The image of the divine is the reality.  “The divine image that you have given me I have given them” (John 17:22).  We were born with an image of the divine on our faces.  We were born with an image of divine love in our hearts.  Genesis 1:27 says, “God created humans in his image; in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”  And in his prayer, Jesus reminds us of that fact.  Jesus says that the glory, the divine image, that was given to him, “I have given them” (John 17:22).

More than that.  The image we have been given is Jesus’ own image.  He is what the divine image looks like when walking and talking down here on this planet. 

And, you might have noticed that I keep saying, “We were born with an image of the divine” and that Jesus “reminds us of that fact.”  It is because that glory, that divine image that Jesus bears, Jesus says, “I have given to them” (John 17:22).

When washed clean, we all look like Jesus.  When washed clean we all love like Jesus, pray like Jesus, heal like Jesus, and serve like Jesus. And, if we all look like Jesus, then we are one; glorifying God together; bearing the image of God together for the world to see.

And, that is what Jesus prays, that we might finally be able to look at each other, see the face of Jesus in each other, love each other because of that face, and be united as one.  No more divisions.  No more hatred.  No more individuals being left out or pushed away.  No more people being forgotten.  No more sinners being barred from the table.  Jesus prays to God the Father hoping that, “the love with which you have loved me may be in them and I in them.” 

Jesus prays that we might be one.  Jesus prays that you might be one with him and with one another.  It is good to be prayed for.

Reflection on John 14:23-29

 

John 14:23-29

23 Jesus answered [Judas (not Iscariot)], “Those who love me will keep my word, and my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. 24 Whoever does not love me does not keep my words, and the word that you hear is not mine but is from the Father who sent me.

  25 “I have said these things to you while I am still with you. 26 But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and remind you of all that I have said to you. 27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid. 28 You heard me say to you, ‘I am going away, and I am coming to you.’ If you loved me, you would rejoice that I am going to the Father, because the Father is greater than I. 29 And now I have told you this before it occurs, so that when it does occur you may believe.”

Reflection

A couple of years ago, I did the funeral of a man who clearly instructed his children throughout the years that John 14:2-3 would be read at his funeral.  Even though you may not know the Biblical reference off the tops of your heads, you definitely know the words:

“In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you?  And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also” (John 14:2-3).

He wanted this to be the focus of his funeral, because he had always imagined that his heavenly “home” would be a place similar to his own where the family always gathered around the warmth of the fire, snuggled close, telling each other stories.  In fact, after the funeral, the children and grandchildren did just that, gathered around the fireplace in his home and told the stories of the man’s life to one another.  And, as they gathered around that fire, they felt eternally connected with him.  The warmth of familiarity made them feel better.  They felt at “home.”

Home.

That is one way to translate the word that we read as “dwelling places.”  “In my Father’s house there are many dwelling places” (John 14:2).  It could read, “In my Father’s house there are many homes.”  And, the man imagined that he would be sitting in his heavenly Father’s home, relaxing by the fire of God’s warmth, sharing divine stories and reviving his soul.

The whole scene reminded me of the poem called “The Hearth’s Warmth.”

    In the heart of the home, the hearth glows bright,

    Warming souls through the coldest night.

    Embers dance, a tender sight,

    In its warmth, hearts unite.

 

    Around the fire, stories are spun,

    Laughter echoes, merging into one.

    In its light, fears come undone,

    Under its spell, worries are none.

 

    The hearth, a symbol of love’s embrace,

    A sanctuary, our peaceful place.

    In its arms, we find our grace,

    Home – where we always have a space.

 

As Jesus prepared his disciples to face the day that he would leave, the day he was hung on the cross, he wanted them to be reassured that they would not be separated from him forever; that they would always have a space…a home…with him.  “I go to prepare a place for you” (John 14:2).

And, sometimes that is enough.  Sometimes, looking forward to the day that you will be reunited is enough, and that hope for the day keeps you going and keeps you motivated.  That hope to finally arrive at home with the one you love can encourage you to strive all the way to the end. 

But, sometimes that is not enough.

I recall this girl who was not taking her new life at college very well at all.  She would sob every night, and her brand new roommate would try to comfort her, try to give her something to eat and drink, and try to give her words of encouragement while rubbing her back.  She was a beautiful soul, but she was a new, unfamiliar, beautiful soul.  She was not mom.  She was not from the  girl’s home.

And, I have known plenty of people who have felt the same way about God.  They remember a time when God was close, almost like a constant friend, and then seemingly God was not.  It might have been a tragedy that caused them to feel like they were separated.  It might have been a divorce or some other life altering circumstance that caused them to feel like they were separated.  No matter the exact cause, I think most of us understand all too well what if feels like when we are convinced that God has left us and lost us.

Mary Magdalene found herself weeping in the garden where Jesus’ tomb could be found, convinced that the holy one had left her as an orphan.  The disciples found themselves locked away in a small room, fearfully convinced that the one they loved had left them orphaned.  And, sometimes we find ourselves sobbing, locked away in our rooms, fearful that we have been abandoned and orphaned.  Sometimes we feel as if we have lost all attachment to our heavenly home.

One day, dragging her feet as she returned to her dorm room after class, the college girl was once again drowning in homesickness.  When she got out her key to unlock the door to her room, she looked up to see that the door was already opened just a crack.  As she slowly pushed open the door, she was shocked to see that her half of the dorm room had been transformed.  

On the walls she saw the pictures and posters from her room at home.  The tattered teddy bear from her room at home lay on top of the quilt which had been sewn by her mother years ago and was always on her bed at home.  And, over in the corner of the room was her mother, rocking in the same chair that had rocked her to sleep so many times before.  

Her mother smiled and said, “Your lovely roommate called me and told me that you missed home.  Since you can’t come home right now, I decided to bring home to you.”  The college girl found that age 18 is not too old to curl up on your mother’s lap.  The girl was home.

Did you know that this word for “home” is only used two times in the New Testament?  The first, of course, is when Jesus promises to make us a home in his Father’s house, but the second is just a number of verses later.  It comes after Jesus gives a promise to the disciples: “I will not leave you orphaned; I am coming to you” (John 14:18).  The word for “home” is found in verse 23 where Jesus adds to his promise: “Those who love me will keep my word, and my Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them” (John 14:23).  Jesus promises that God the Father and he will come back to those who love him, bringing his heavenly home to them.

It is a home of love.  It is a home of peace.  It is a home of encouragement.  It is a home of comfort in troubled times.  It is a home of teaching and divine stories.  God is a mother who brings the comfort of home, and is present for a homesick daughter.  Home is Jesus himself, coming through the Holy Spirit to love, teach, and give peace.

“The Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything and remind you of all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid. You heard me say to you, ‘I am going away, and I am coming to you’” (John 14:26-28).

“I am coming to you.”

“I am coming to you.”

“I am coming to you.”

When Mary Magdalene heard her name echo through the garden, and she looked up to see her risen savior who had returned to be with her, she experienced the promise that rings true throughout all of time: ‘I am coming to you.”

When the disciples looked up and saw Jesus join them through their locked doors, showing his hands and his side, they rejoiced as they experienced the promise that rings true in all places: “I am coming to you.”

And, when you cry out, unable to be comforted, feeling abandoned and orphaned, look up!  See that your true home follows you wherever you go.  The paintings of Jesus’ love are hung on every wall.  The posters of Jesus teachings are there to guide you wherever you step.  And, the embrace that finally brings you peace is always waiting with arms outstretched from the rocking chair.  “I am coming to you” Jesus promises.  And, if you look up, you will see that through the power of the Holy Spirit, Jesus has returned to be with you wherever you go.

The song writer, Paul Zach puts it this way in his song, “Wherever I Find Myself”:

Wherever I find myself,

I want to feel at home,

No matter where, your angels are there,

Touching down on every stone.

When I’m running from becoming

All the wrong that I’ve done,

Won’t you follow me

wherever I run?

When I wrestle with the shadows

In the depths of my soul

Come and bless me here

And don’t let me go

When I’m passing through the waters

Or I’m going through hell,

Let your arms be the place where I dwell.

When I’m walking in the valley

of the shadow of death,

You will set your table filed with wine and bread.

Every stone beneath my feet,

Is where earth and heaven meet.

Every place I lay my head,

I where your mercy descends.

Surely, you are in this place.

Surely, you are in this place.

Wherever I find myself

You will be my home

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Reflection on John 13:31-35

 

John 13:31-35

31 When he had gone out, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man has been glorified, and God has been glorified in him. 32 If God has been glorified in him, God will also glorify him in himself and will glorify him at once. 33 Little children, I am with you only a little longer. You will look for me, and as I said to the Jews so now I say to you, ‘Where I am going, you cannot come.’ 34 I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

Reflection

Love is not easy. 

Sure, it seems pretty easy when you rip Jesus’ instruction to love right out of John and paste it on a wall hanging.  “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.”  So, you read the words as they hang on the wall of the waiting room and you think, “Gee, that nice.  We should all go out and love each other.  Wouldn’t that make for a great world?  How hard can that be?”

Well, the truth is that it is actually really hard.  Loving others has never been a piece of cake and, seemingly, it was not necessarily easy for Jesus either.

If you take this sentiment of love off of the wall and put it back into its place in the Bible, you will see that this command to love others comes right between Judas’ betrayal of Jesus and the prediction of Peter’s denial of following Jesus.  This demand to love falls right in the middle of hurt and abandonment by two of Jesus’ closest friends. 

I cannot image that it was easy for Jesus to bend down to the ground and wash these two betrayer’s feet, like a lowly servant, knowing that they are both just going to kick him in the face.  These two are not deserving of such an act of love.  These two are in no way worthy of such sacrificial treatment.  Judas and Peter will soon be the ones who will cause pain and heartache for Jesus.  And, Jesus knows it.  He knows what is about to happen.  Yet, Jesus bends down and serves them anyway.  Jesus loves them anyway.

You see what I mean?  Love is not easy.

At least it was not easy for an acquaintance of mine.  For years the woman’s sister was nothing but trouble.  She rebelled against her parents and refused to heed her own sister’s suggestions.  The woman tried to help her sister get on the right path in life, over and over and over again she tried.  It was no good.  Her sister spiraled downward anyway, destroying her own life and slicing the woman’s life on her way down.  The stolen car was the last straw.  The woman needed her car to get to work, and her sister stole it.  She sold it in exchange for a measly amount of intoxicants, and the woman finally said, “Enough is enough.”  She said “goodbye” to her sister for what she thought would be the last time. 

But, two years later, her sister showed up on her front step wearing hole-ridden clothes, tears streaming down her dark, dying eyes, as she said, “Please don’t shut the door.  I am so, so alone.  I just need someone to love me.  Forgive me, sister.  I just need someone to love me.”

You see what I mean?  It is not easy to love. 

Love is not some fairytale lifted out from the reality of life.  Love is always in the trenches.  Love is always dirty.  It is not easy to love. 

Yet, Jesus still loved and served the one who betrayed him, Judas, and loved and served the one who would deny following him, Peter, and Jesus demands that we, his followers, do the same.

“I give you a new commandment,” Jesus says, “that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35).

It is almost as if love is this sort of glue that holds the world together.  In the least, it is the glue that holds his people together in him.

Another acquaintance loved dearly their teenage girl’s boyfriend.  She loved seeing the two together.  She loved how happy they were when they went to the amusement park.  She loved how in love they were as they snuggled on the porch swing at night.  She loved how the boy made her daughter feel happy about herself.

She got to know the boyfriend very well, and would pack him some food before he went back home because home life was rough and there were no guarantees that he would be fed.  She invested in the boy, hoping that he could rise above the loveless, cracked nature of his family.  She dearly loved the boy.

Then came the night that her daughter broke up with the boy.  That was the same night that he took out his pocketknife and murdered her.

Love is not easy.  Two years after the trial and conviction, she received a letter from the prison.  It was the boyfriend.  He wanted to talk to her.

She stayed up countless nights, stressing over the potential of going to the prison.  She stressed about going to see the one who took her little girl away from her.  She could not imagine looking into his eyes once again and listening to anything that this betrayer of her family had to say.

It is not easy to love.  Love is not some fairytale lifted out from the reality of life.  Love is always in the trenches.  Love is always dirty. 

It is not easy to love.  Yet, Jesus still loved and served the one who betrayed him and the one who denied following him, and he demands that his followers to do the same.

Both of the stories you just heard are absolutely true, and they are absolutely heavy and heart breaking.  So, why not take just a little breather to take a closer look at the Bible.  I want to show you something. 

In the Greek language, the language in which the New Testament was written, the order of the words can convey meaning to the reader…not just what the words say.  And in this passage about love, you can see how that works right in the English.  In Jesus’ teaching we read, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.”  Notice how that part about loving one another is actually written twice.  The command to love one another are like two pieces of bread that sandwich the phrase, “Just as I have loved you.” 

The love that Jesus has given us is the meat of the sandwich.  It is the part that gives flavor to the bread.  Jesus’ love, gives our love for others its flavor.

Or, you can look at it another way.  Jesus’ love for us is the sun just coming up from behind the horizon, and once it is up, it spills light on everything is on either side of it.  Jesus’ love rises, spills in all directions, and because we have all been touched by it, we go out and love in the exact same way.

You heard me right; we love in the exact same way.  If Jesus serves those who would betray and deny, then we also serve those who would betray and deny.  If Jesus would go to the cross for a sinner, then we too go to the cross for a sinner. 

As Jesus is trying to teach us, love is not easy.  Love is not limited to the heartwarming moments spent snuggled by summer fires under a canvas of stars.  It is not just the first glances at the precious face of the newborn child.  It is not just the first kiss of two young ones in love.  Love is all of those things, but love is also so much more.

Love is not easy.  Jesus’ love looks a lot like going to the prison, facing your child’s murderer, listening to his tear-filled plea of forgiveness, and then over the course of a few agonizing months choosing to visit him and advocate for him in the years to come.  After-all, if you recall, his own family gave him no love, even before things went terribly wrong.  Who else in this world can possibly give him any ounce of love?  Love is not easy, but it is life-changing.

Love is not easy.  Jesus’ love looks a lot like stepping out the door, giving your broken and wretched sister an embrace, and leading her to the bathroom to start the long process of cleaning her up. 

If you recall, Jesus loved and served the one who betrayed him, Judas, and loved and served the one who denied following him, Peter.  Jesus loved both of them anyway.  To be a follower of Jesus is to do the same.  Following the one who went to the cross out of love for the world, means that we do the same.

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35).

Love is not easy, but Jesus never promised that loving others would be easy.  There is nothing life-changing about an easy sort of love that says the words but does not take action.  Jesus’ love costs something.  It cost Jesus his life.  Love costs something.  It costs our pride.  It costs our hurt feelings.  It costs our time.  

But, it is worth the cost because lives are changed with that messy sort of divine love.  There are lives to be changed when we share Jesus’ love with those God has placed in our lives. 

There are lives to be changed when love shows up even in the messiest and toughest of situations.

“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.  By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another" (John 13:34).

It was once said that “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”  Have courage.  Love deeply, just as you are deeply loved by Jesus Christ, your Lord.