Romans 8:12-25 (NRSVue)
12 So then,
brothers and sisters, we are obligated, not to the flesh, to live according to
the flesh—13 for if you live according to the flesh, you will die, but if by
the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. 14 For all
who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. 15 For you did not
receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received a spirit
of adoption. When we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 it is that very Spirit bearing
witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then
heirs: heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if we in fact suffer with him
so that we may also be glorified with him.
18 I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be revealed to us. 19 For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the children of God, 20 for the creation was subjected to futility, not of its own will, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be set free from its enslavement to decay and will obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God. 22 We know that the whole creation has been groaning together as it suffers together the pains of labor, 23 and not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly while we wait for adoption, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope, for who hopes for what one already sees? 25 But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.
Reflection
“We are obligated not…to live according to the flesh” (Romans 8:12).
We do not have to live in the ways that the world thinks we should live. We do not have to follow the values that the selfish and uncaring have passed to us. We do not have to live the way others live, especially when those ways do not promote life.
“We are obligated not…to live according to the flesh” (Romans 8:12).
These were soul saving words for a friend of mine. You see, when my friend left business college, he was immediately snatched up by a New York City investment firm. Right away he was thrown into “the good life” that the city could provide. Within months he was driving the car of his dreams, living it up in the dance clubs at night, and making more money than he thought that he would ever be making in a lifetime. The only problem was that some of the practices that he was being taught to bring in those big numbers seemed to be balancing on the cliff edge of unethical, if not freely jumping off the cliff. The reality was: the money he was making was causing suffering elsewhere.
Partying with the bros on what he increasingly felt was tainted money started to eat away at his soul. But, whenever he tried to breach the subject with his city bros, they shrugged and danced away into the night, drinks firmly in their hands.
Do you know how hard it is to separate yourself from your culture? Do you know how lonely it is to be the only person who seems to see what is corrosive and harmful in the life that everyone seems to be embracing?
But this was the life he trained for. This was the path that he chose for himself. And it was so very, very good…to him. So then, why did it feel so very wrong?
In mentioned that he was a friend. I can tell you exactly why it felt wrong. He was a friend from church. He was a friend from a faith community that asked us teens to help deliver turkeys to needy families at Thanksgiving. He was a friend who heard again and again that in God’s eyes, we are all children of God. No one deserves any more than anyone else. The human community is a “we” and not a “me.” He was a friend who heard the pastor preach about how Jesus refused to put himself first, but who on the cross put the everyone else first.
He learned around the nature of Jesus’ heart by listening to teachings such as: “the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve and to give his life a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:28); and “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39); and most importantly, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37).
Not only did these teachings sink into his soul throughout those years of growing up, but he also clearly heard the love that Jesus had for him…for us…on the cross: “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends” (John 15:13-14).
The life he had stumbled into was none of that. It was all about helping yourself, enriching yourself, and making your life a great party. In that way of life there was no concept of giving up your life for others.
But how do you change an entire culture? How do you reshape people who have no desire to be shaped? How do you make people care about how others are being cheated and hurt when they do not care about others? He felt trapped in his new life, until he read these words from Paul: “We are obligated not…to live according to the flesh” (Romans 8:12).
He heard God saying to him through Paul, “You don’t have to live this way. You don’t have to be a part of any of it. Your very soul, your very being will rot and die in this way of life.” The Apostle Paul said it clearly, “If you live according to the flesh, you will die” (Romans 8:13). “We are obligated not…to live according to the flesh” (Romans 8:12).
“You can just leave,” he heard God telling him. “This does not have to be your life; you can just leave.”
So, he did. He left the job. He left the city. He left that way of life. He started using his financial smarts in an organization that helps to support the education of disabled children. He took a huge pay cut and sacrificed “the good life” so that he might live a “life of goodness.” It was worth it.
Paul teaches: “If you live according to the flesh, you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live” (Romans 8:13). Life in the Spirit is true life!
That is easy to forget, because the lure of the world is so strong. My friend needed to remember that he was adopted.
Please understand, he was not adopted in an earthly family sense. He grew up with his own biological parents. What I mean is that when his life ceased to reflect the values of his Christian family, the family in which Jesus made him a member, he needed to be reminded that his adoption in that family never ceased.
Paul reminds us: “You received a spirit of adoption. When we cry, “Abba! Father!” it is that very Spirit bearing witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs: heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if we in fact suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him” (Romans 8:15-17).
Being adopted into a family means something. Primarily, in the ancient world, it meant that you would get an inheritance. The primary reason men would adopt in the ancient world was so that there would be someone who could inherit and continue the family business, especially if there were no sons to whom it could be passed. Or a man might adopt someone who is very skilled and important in the family business in order to keep them in that business, and in that way of life.
Just think: God the Father thought that you were so important that God needed to adopt you and keep you in the family business. Have you ever considered that you are truly valuable to God?
I think that is why my friend struggled so much at that well paying job. He did not feel like what he was doing was valuable to God. He was not living in his identity as a beloved child of God, and as a brother of Jesus Christ.
I remember once being scolded as a child, in a gently yet firm voice, “What you did is not what an Albers would do!” Now, I have to admit that I have no recollection of what I was doing to deserve such a scolding. It probably had something to do with picking on my little brother, I do not know. But I clearly remember the words. It was as if there was a certain way of life that was “being an Albers.” I remember wanting to be an Albers. Not that there was any fear that I would be disowned, that is not it. I wanted everyone to see the type of Albers that other members of the Albers family reflected in the community.
And my friend yearned for the same thing as far as his life in Christ’s family was concerned. His wild city life at the expense of others did not reflect the family that he was in. The Spirit of God was crying out in his soul, yearning that he remember his adoption and yearning that he would no longer feel obligated to walk the ways of a life that led to the death of his deepest self. More than that, others needed him to be his true self. Others needed the love of Christ through his hands. Others needed him to be a member of his Christ-like family.
Paul says, “For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the children of God” (Romans 8:19). Even creation awaits our return as children of God, as adopted members of the family of Jesus Christ. Even the birds need us to be who we were adopted to be.
It makes me think of some lyrics from the song Rubberband Man by Mumford and Sons and Hozier in particular who sings:
“Steady yourself / And your tumbleweed words / Be a street corner preacher / Or just feed the birds” (Mumford and Sons and Hozier, Rubberband Man).
True life, a steady life, can be found in a life that preaches Christ on the street corner, but it can also be found in caring for the birds in the park.
My friend might have been lured into a destructive and selfish way of life, but he had never forgotten his former one completely. The one thing that grounded him in compassion and love each day was sharing the bready end of his ham and cheese sub with the birds. In the nearby park where he ate, he ripped off pieces of bread and gave a morsel of life to the birds gathering around his feet. Most people view pigeons as a nuisance, but he saw the sharing of bread as grace to God’s creatures.
That sounds a lot like the one who shared the bread of his own body to a nuisance and sin-filled world. It sounds a lot like the one in whose family we are adopted. It sounds a lot like the one in whom we put our hope when the world out there does not seem to really care. Never forget, you are adopted into the family of your redeemer and savior, Jesus Christ our Lord. Live in that life. Live in that hope. Love like Jesus.




