My
grandma once taught me, “You are known by who you hang out with.” The implication of this was, of course, if
you ate your school lunch with good and proper people, you also will be known
as good and proper. Then there are the
people with whom she would not have me eat lunch: the sinners.
Yes,
of course, we are all sinners and need the forgiveness of God, but this was not
the classification of sin that she was talking about. She was talking about cheats and turncoats
and drug users. You do not sit at the
lunch table with them, because if you do, you are considered one of them.
Jesus
appears to be making the simple lunchroom error that every Jr. High student of
any worth inherently knows to avoid: sitting with the wrong crowd. “This fellow welcomes sinners and eats with
them.” You can almost hear the
accusations dripping from their lips. It
is as if Jesus were a criminal himself.
It is as if Jesus himself were to come to no good. It is as if Jesus might be hauled away by the
authorities and executed. If only the
Pharisees and the scribes knew the end of the story. But, they do not know the end of the
story. They only know that Jesus eats
with bad people…with sinners; “tisk, tisk.”
Yes, my grandmother actually said, “tisk, tisk.”
The
Pharisees and scribes see the world as good and bad. They see the world as black and white. They see the world just as my grandma had
taught: good people…sit with them; bad people…do not sit with them. My grandma also taught that you can marry a
rich woman as easily as a poor one. I
did not listen to that gem of advice, but I think that the former lesson sank
in a little deeper than I would like to admit.
I think that sometimes I do look out on the world and throw people into the
categories of good and bad.
For
example, once at a church picnic, I saw a young couple drive up in an old
pickup truck with their four young children.
Did you catch what I said? A
couple was driving all of their children around, stuffed into the front seat of
an old pickup truck. Those children wore
no seatbelts, and certainly did not sit in age appropriate (required by law)
car seats. I shook my head in disbelief
as they got out of the truck to go play in the park, and continued
eating my turkey and mustard sandwich with all of the other good people of
the church.
A
little later I looked up to see that the parents had gone off on their own to
play basketball while their children were…well…they did not even know where
their children were, they were not watching! Terrible people. I settled into conversation with those who
knew better and promptly forgot about those sinners until in the middle of the
night when my mind wandered to them once again causing me to jump awake and
realized with horror one simple truth: Jesus invites sinners to eat.
I
am a pastor! How could I be so
stupid? I am a Christian! How could I be so dumb and
inconsiderate? How could it be that I
did not invite this sinful family over to eat with us? The answer is easy really: it is because I
saw them simply as that: sinful, hopeless people. Jesus, on the other hand, did not categorize
people this way. Jesus simply asked,
“Are these people lost?”
"Which one of
you, having a hundred sheep and losing one of them, does not leave the
ninety-nine in the wilderness and go after the one that is lost until he finds
it? When he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders and rejoices. And when he
comes home, he calls together his friends and neighbors, saying to them,
'Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep that was lost.' Just so, I tell
you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who [is found and turns
his life around] than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no
repentance. Or what woman having ten silver coins, if she loses one of them,
does not light a lamp, sweep the house, and search carefully until she finds
it? When she has found it, she calls together her friends and neighbors,
saying, 'Rejoice with me, for I have found the coin that I had lost.' Just so,
I tell you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner
who is found and [turns her life around.]"
The
question I ask when I see people is: are they good or bad?
The
question Jesus asks when he sees people is: “Are they lost?” And, if they are, then they need to be found.
I
should have gone and found those children.
I should have gone and found those parents. I should have invited them to eat with
us. Maybe I did not because I, like the
Pharisees and scribes, also am lost.
Being
lost can do that. It can cause you to
forget that everyone is precious to God. It can cause us to forget that Christ
somehow does not feel complete unless Christ finds everyone who is lost.
Just
like a shepherd is no shepherd at all if he loses his master’s sheep. Christ is not who he promises to be if he
fails to search for the lost.
Just
like the woman frantically searches the house to find her lost coin; the piece of
dowry that fell away from her headscarf or hip scarf that shows her worth in
the ancient world; Christ frantically searches for us, the lost.
Shepherds
are not complete without all of their sheep. Women of the ancient world were not complete
without their entire dowry. Parents are not complete without all of their
children. Siblings are not complete without their brother or sister. God is not
complete as long as God’s children are lost.
God
definitely recognizes when a child is missing from the dinner table. Just as our
own parents would be devastated if we did not show up at the table when we were
young, God too is devastated when we fail to show up.
In
fact, God is so passionate about finding us that God sent God’s only son to the
earth, to risk his life to find us; to save us from the darkness; and to bring
us out of the blackness of sin into the light of resurrection.
So,
I guess that means that we are a once lost but now found people. We are the people who once wandered away from
God. But, that is not the important part of our story. The important part of the story is the part where
we are found. The important part of the
whole story is that Christ came to find us, grab us by the hand, and raise us
up. We are a found people who are loved
by God. That makes us a finding people
who have the heart of Christ. We are a
once lost but finding people who search and search and search until all are
found.
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