Luke 14:1, 7-14
1 On one
occasion when Jesus was going to the house of a leader of the Pharisees to eat
a meal on the Sabbath, they were watching him closely.
7 When
he noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, he told them a parable.
8 “When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the
place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by
your host, 9 and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you,
‘Give this person your place,’ and then in disgrace you would start to take the
lowest place. 10 But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place,
so that when your host comes, he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher’; then
you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you.
11 For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble
themselves will be exalted.”
12 He
said also to the one who had invited him, “When you give a luncheon or a
dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers and sisters or your
relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you
would be repaid. 13 But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled,
the lame, and the blind. 14 And you will be blessed because they cannot repay
you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
Reflection
How do you
build a culture of Christian people?
A wise professor at my seminary once answered: “You need to start somewhere, so start with a single Bible story. Allow God to build a culture around that story.”
So, if you wanted to shape a group of people into Jesus people, what Bible story would you choose? If you wanted to build a culture of people who followed the ways of Jesus, what Bible story would you use to start?
One High School coach found himself asking this precise question. You see, he had inherited a team of football players who only cared about themselves. Each player wanted glory. Each player wanted to be the winner. Each player looked out for only themselves. Thus, they were a group of self-proclaimed stars, but they were not a team, and it showed.
He saw it in the cafeteria of the high school as he monitored the room. The players were stuck up. The players literally pushed and shoved their way up the social rankings. They took the best seats and pushed others out of those spaces.
The coach did not need a team full of self-absorbed stars. He needed a team that worked together. He needed a team that watched out for one another. His team needed some humbling.
So, where did this faithful, Jesus following football coach look to start building a new culture in his team? He started with Luke 14:12-13. Just to remind you, this story is prefaced with Jesus pointing out that it is unwise to take the best seats at a banquet. After-all, if you are not the most honored guest, you will, embarrassingly, be kicked to a worse seat at the table, in front of the eyes of everyone in the room. Instead, be humble and first, take a lower seat and then, maybe you will be invited closer, in front of the eye of everyone in the room. Then Jesus turns his attention to the one giving the feast and says:
“When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers and sisters or your relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you would be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind” (Luke 14:12-13).
Why would a football coach choose that particular Bible story to shape the culture of his football team? Because, Jesus taught him long ago that meals are powerful shapers of people. Who we eat with shapes us. What we do during those meals molds us. How the powerful and important act at a meal influences us and makes a difference in us. If he wanted to see a different culture on the field, he knew in his very bones that he first needed to see a different culture during lunch.
“Men, gather around,” he shouted to the players during their next practice. “New rule this year. You know how there are a number of losers and loners sitting by themselves at tables during lunch. Your lunch will now be with them. You will invite them to sit at your tables, or you will sit with them at their tables. If I see any loser or loner sitting by themselves at lunch, you will all be doing laps for the next practice. I mean it. We lift others up, we do not keep them down.
In addition, if I see anyone push away, diss, or exclude someone else at lunch, you will not play the next game. I do not care if you are the star quarterback. You will not be playing. We are gentlemen. Gentlemen put others first. Gentlemen open doors for women. Gentlemen run to help those who are hurt, on the field and off. And, gentlemen do not let others feel like they are losers and loners. Gentlemen put others first.”
Hearing the story of this coach just blew my mind. It was as if this coach had taken the teaching of Jesus, translated it into our culture and our language, and helped to make sure it had the chance to be a living word for his players. And, it worked. After some laps and a lost game because of some benched players, they started to play together. They started to help each other improve. They helped to lift each other up rather than compete with one another. And, because of the culture of the players, the school itself started to become less divided and more whole. Jesus’ word transformed that school’s culture, and transformed each of those players, and it led to a championship. That is the power of Jesus’ word. That is the power of loving like Jesus.
And, it is all because the coach started with a single Bible story and allowed God to build a culture around that story.
And, the power in this particular Bible story is that it is so simple to understand. There is almost nothing you need to research; no strange Greek words to translate or understand in order get it. In God’s kingdom, the powerful are those who serve. In God’s kingdom, the loners and losers, and the “the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind” are all invited to sit at the lunch table (Luke 14:13). In the world, they may be pushed down, pushed away, and forgotten, but in God’s kingdom, they are given places of honor at the table.
And, Jesus says that those who have lifted others up can trust that they will themselves be lifted up in the resurrection.
“When you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed because they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous” (Luke 14:13-14).
Stooping down to lift others causes us to join with the one who stooped down to lift us. He stooped down, falling into the dust, was rolled over onto a cross and nailed there, and after being lifted in shame, was again placed into a lowly grave. You see, by stooping low Jesus gathers us up and lifts us into a glorious resurrection to eternal life.
“Those who humble themselves will be exalted” (Luke 14:11).
In other words, “We rise when we lift others up.”
“We rise when we lift others up.”
It is not a hard message to understand. But, it is a hard message to live. It is a hard message to convince a culture to adopt.
But, it helps if you start with a single Bible story and allow God to build a culture around that story.
In fact, it was the singular Bible story that revitalized a small congregation.
It all started off with some fried chicken. In the shrinking congregation, there was an older couple who owned a ma-n’-pop fried chicken restaurant. Now, at the end of the day, there was usually quite a bit of chicken left over that was not sold, that was just thrown away. One day, inspiration hit the couple and they started bringing the chicken from the night before, and some fixings, to church. They created a little feast on Sunday mornings, and it lifted everyone up in that depressed little church.
One morning, the pastor preached on this Bible story from Luke 14 of Jesus telling the banquet host to start inviting “the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind” to the banquet. With that story fresh in his mind, a man listening to the sermon was led to think about his lonely cousin, who could use a good meal. And, then he smelled the chicken and had an idea. He would invite the cousin the next Sunday so that he could have a good meal.
The cousin, who had never crossed the doorway of a church before, was treated like a king in the little congregation, people going out of their way to offer a place to sit and a beverage to drink. He was made so happy that morning. He had found his people.
And, then that is when it clicked, this meal of fried chicken is holy. Others started inviting other struggling people to the meal; friends, relatives, and even an obviously struggling family in line at the grocery store. And, one by one they too were treated as kings and queens. They too found their people in that not quite so little anymore church.
And the congregation became known in town as the “congregation full of chickens.” But, there was nothing “chicken” about them. They courageously invited more and more to the feast. And, it was all because of some leftover fried chicken, and starting with a single Bible story.
Do you want to change culture? Do you want to make a difference in the world? Then start simple. “Start with a single Bible story. Allow God to build a culture around that story.” Through that singular story, Jesus will take our grave-stricken souls and raise us all up together into new life.



